Safety & support
🛟 Safety & support resources
Everyone deserves to feel safe. If you're in immediate danger, call your local emergency number (911 in the US/Canada) first.
If you feel unsafe on a date
Trust your gut — you can leave any time, for any reason. Set up a safety check-in before you go so a trusted contact is looking out for you.
Crisis & support (US/Canada)
988 — Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Call or text 988 (US). Canada: call or text 988. 24/7, free, confidential.
Sexual assault — RAINN
1-800-656-4673 (US), 24/7. rainn.org
Domestic violence hotline
1-800-799-7233 (US), 24/7. thehotline.org
LGBTQ+ support — The Trevor Project
Call 1-866-488-7386, or text START to 678-678.
Sexual health
Find free/low-cost STI testing
gettested.cdc.gov — enter your ZIP to find a nearby site.
PrEP information
Talk to a provider about PrEP for HIV prevention. See our glossary and Learn guides.
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These resources are provided for support and are not a substitute for professional or emergency help. Numbers are US/Canada; search locally if you're elsewhere.